So j file for divorce? I thought I was here so I didn't get divorced.
I didnt say anything about divorce. My question to you is - why is he the only one that gets a say in whether you two are together? I get that you want to be with him, but you cant just sit around waiting for that to happen.If he knows you will always be there as an option, what incentive does he have to choose you?
Originally Posted By: sr9e2d7
Well he came back last night and told me that he wants to make an appt. with a therapist. I told him that he needs to do that, because he needs to show a little effort. So now it's a waiting game of whether he does it or not
I should hope that if he truly wants to reconcile, that he will show a LOT of effort. The biggest mistake is making it too easy to come back. You are worth more than being his backup option.
