My little slice of Life..

[sandi2]

Sandi how do you come to that conclusion , not doubting it just looking for The reason behind it- Emotional withdrawal..

Based on your posts, she fits the WW mold. I hope you will read the rest of my threads on that subject.

You are the one trying to find a reason for her wanting to end the the M. When a woman doesn't have a reason, other than she's just not happy........that raises a red flag. Sometimes the WW will give a string of complaints, but when the list is examined, you have to ask yourself if those reason justify breaking apart a family. They give reasons like, not helping around the house, not paying enough attention to her, not spending enough time with the kids, not going out enough, etc.

Truth is, it's all about her and what she wants. Selfishness!

Another trait is anger. The least little thing the H says or does that isn't lining up with what she wants........the anger comes out. Some women use their anger as a means to bully the H, especially if he tries to avoid her being mad at him. A WW can be worse than a school yard bully.

The WW is manipulative. But I have written about all of this in my threads.

As for an affair or wild behavior... It's just not there..some leg stretching but this is a weird time in our marriage... So I guess anything is possible.

I doubt people would have said they saw any wild behavior or an A in me, either. But I was wayward, nonetheless. I held so much resentment in my heart toward my H, that I didn't like to hear anyone talk about what a nice-guy he was. I had lost respect and those closest may have been able to see, IDK. I was bitter and I was very depressed. Finally, I started an Internet affair.

I'm not sure what you want answered about the space. I'll try to help where I can, but as I said, it's in my threads if you'll read them.

She continues to exclude and corner me off , often times avoiding me altogether.

That's what WW's do. You are going to see changes in her that will blow you away. She's not the girl you M.

MC is a waste of time and money, until she is ready to do the work to save the M. She wants out of it,....... not save it. Be prepared, b/c many W's will announce they want a D at the MC session.