Still here and need support

[poschan]

this morning got a text from WAW that said I am turning d7 against her sine d7 continues to blame WAW that she left her by moving out and that it was all WAW choice. WAW said I told d7 that. I texted back that it was WAW choice and that d7 saw WAW move out.i told WAW that I don't say things to turn her against WAW. I told her I tell her we both love her and reaffirm that this is not her fault. WAW wrote that this was not her choice and I played a major part in the M not working. WAW said yes she left because she was "tired" of being my roommate and said I started working on repair too late (of course). I told her I take ownership for my part and am still working on those aspects.
Funny part is that she never told me about her intentions. I found a list of addresses of houses she was looking at and that's how I found out. She didn't have enough respect to confront me and tell me her intentions? As sandi and others have said "no" she doesn't. was I wrong in replying like this today? she is still not taking ownership for her choice to walk away from me and the marriage by saying I played the major part. I know there was a tear in our communication channel for awhile but that is not all my fault. d7 had been sleeping in our bed for the last year while I was in the guest room. I started sleeping in the guest room since WAW was snoring a lot and I was not getting a good nights sleep. Intimacy and such had long since vanished before that took place.