Originally Posted By: liono
She told me she noticed me getting "resentful". I explained that, just as she is, I also am struggling with processing all the emotions, and sometimes I need to walk out of the room, or go to bed early, for me. Not because I resent or hate her, but just because it's what I need for my own mental clarity.


liono,

Yeah, I know how the resentment can gradually build and then I'd suddenly realize I'm a tad angry. The last time that happened to me, my wife actually started warming-up to me. I offered her a good spanking. She went into a tailspin.

Lesson learned. Wait until you're truly reconciling before offering a spanking. That should probably go on the list of rules. No spankings until everyone is all happy again.