Leaving for a week's vacation with my New Guy in a few days...
He really wants to be more closely integrated into my daily life
Maybell, I'm totally jealous of this, and it's giving me food for thought.
I'm also very jealous. That was all I really wanted from my exNG. I was a part of his life, him, not so much a part of mine. I couldn't go on like that, as my friends and family are very important to me. he seems to really care, is making such an effort, and really cares about you all.
You handle the kid situation great, asking how much time they want ot spend with him, and that is almost their whole weekend. But ye, you do have to consider how much time is good for you.
Navigating these waters can be scary. Please be sure and stop to take joy and excitement in all of this.
