Don’t get me wrong I’m not against my wife seeing girlfriends to have fun (although I don’t like this set) but not when it comes at the expense of her family, family time and her children – they come first in my book.
Then why dont you have a custody schedule arranged yet?
Looking after your kids shouldnt be a favor she is asking for. Once you have a schedule then your questions dont matter anymore. If she wants to go out when it's her turn, then she can find some way to make it work. If she wants to go out while you have them, then so be it.
