Out of In house S- Start of two homes (10)

[vise82]

Hey,

Had babysitter over to help set up the house, she set up the toy room while I left to watch youngest S4 play soccer.

Found a spot next to S7 to sit and then kicked the ball with him till game started. I stopped it to go watch S4 play his game and S7 was really bitter and mouthy to me. So I told him he cant talk to me like that and I wont ply with him if he talks to me so rude and calls me names.

He sits and watches between W and I. Then he starts up again and W starts correcting him. He gets worse and W corrects him more as he was calling her names and being rude to W.

He settled down long enough for the game to end. We pack up and I see W has a lot of stuff. I offer to take a bag, and she snaps back at me : no but you could talk to your son about his rudeness. He was talking back to me and you said nothing. then she storms ahead.

So no real contact for three days and we meet face to face and I get anger from her??

We get to the car then we finalize her birthday dinner plans, she is getting off work really early to get home and ready she said and might meet us early for dinner.

SO I leave and she takes the kids to her house after we said our good byes.

I get home and babysitter is done the toys and she helps with the dining room. I thank her as I really needed the help and she was on her way after I pay her. House is getting even closer to looking normal now.

The dog is having problems as the last couple of days now he has pooped on the floor. Not sure what is up with that, stress of the move? So I have had to deal with that.

After work I have to pick up kids help them get W a gift and card and meet her at the restaurant. I think I might offer to drive so that she can drink. Then after its S7 soccer. Then I have the boys until mid fathers day. So it will be a full night.

I was surprised to hear that she needs to get ready for the dinner, my first thought was she is not doing that for us, she must have plans after the dinner. But it is a work day. Then I thought its non of my business. Best not to think about it. Have the dinner live in the moment. Then its my time with the boys. She can do what ever she pleases.