I need a little help with db'n ... I have read dr and gained a lot of knowledge. However my sitch doesn't really fit any one scenario. I wasted a lot of time on categorizing what my wife was ( ww or waw) because she really fit neither that well. She loves kids and will not leave them as she's told me. As for an affair or wild behavior... It's just not there..some leg stretching but this is a weird time in our marriage... So I guess anything is possible.

Would like some help on the space issue which is causing all kind of problems. Y youngest d noticed a change early on that I was coming home earlier and more "fun". But then wife says I dote on her and that I'm home way too much. Spending time with kids was one of her issues..?
They have activities coming up that will keep them all away for most of the summer which will be hard. I have already been "removed" from the inlaw family vacation that I've been apart of for 13yrs. That hurt...
She continues to exclude and corner me off , often times avoiding me altogether.
It is killing me to not know where our marriage is heading.. Our next mc session is Monday.

If sandi or wonka could chime in i really could use a little different perspective.
Thanks to all those who have offered help so far


Me:47 XW 43
D15 D10
Together 17 married 15
Bd : Mother's Day 2015
Sep :July 2015
Divorce final October 2016