Being there to help v going dark:balance

[Surfer]

Thank you so much. Re: the family party - it might create an atmosphere with some if I go........it is her family after all......will it not just make matters worse? Previously she has created a storm and our S6 sees it as arguing and begs me to go away or home. Alternatively she storms off and makes a scene saying she can't enjoy or get any time etc. Also, are we. It supposed to be getting along....mmmm???? I totally understand but am a bit nervous about that one. It's also a fund raiser for her niece that died tragically age 14. Therefore creating a scene at this event will be bad. I will look like I have been dancing naked on graves or if not it could be twisted that way and defiantly would be.

Thoughts appreciated ....