Congrats on the new job, Pinn! How exciting! And ya.... After my tri, I've decided im going to train for a full marathon. You game?! Haha!

Re: your WW, I think you made a good call skipping the dinner... Especially on an anniversary. Actually, I was typing out a whole bunch of other stuff here from the perspective of a woman and just decided to delete it because it would be mind reading on her behalf and not right. Just remember anniversaries are emotional and i don't believe that two people in a relationship, estranged or not, dont want their emotional needs met on such an important day. Again, I personally think you made the right choice.

For now, I'll just leave you with a wish for more good days. Enjoy your promotion and bike shopping!!


Me- 30's H- 40's
T-10 M-5
I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15
D filed by H: September 16