True about the shaman bit SadSare. It was my brother who sought him out. I didnt even meet him although my brother is relaying the things he sees.
Im too numb by now to hope anyway. I guess i will just go into observing mode for awhile and try to keep my neediness in check. While I definitely want her back in the relationship i want her to choose me. Not the life, the M, the whatever comforts or safety net or codependency the M brings.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.
