I found myself really upset with w and myself tonight. I took the kids to fly kites after work at the soccer fields near our and there were several tee ball games going. The kids immediately started asking me if they could play, why they couldn't, how come I didn't sign them up, etc. etc. and nearly crying abou it. I couldn't give a good answer because the reason is w. They asked about it a few months ago and I wanted to sign them up but w was strongly opposed and I ended up giving in, now I see it interfered with her plans to move. I know she won't do any organized sports with them if she gets custody.
Tonight when on the phone with them she was telling them about getting filing cabinets for her office. I know it's been her plan but it hit me like a punch in the stomach. I still can't believe she is leaving next week and my kids have to go. It's sickening.
The kids have no clue what's coming. Idk how to tell them or what to do. All kids need stability and structure but especially with asd and being young. They deserve better than what she is doing. The only other person she even knows there is OM so there are a lot of things going through my mind, mostly the well-being of my kids. I'm not sure how to handle this, I think she is planning on getting them Sunday night and leaving town the next morning. That's a lot for a kid to handle.
I do know from d talking that w told them they were going to a different school in the fall (maybe w doesn't understand it's not up to her) but I can tell they don't know about the move.
