My M died in 2009 just didn't see it. I would have stayed in the marriage if she didn't file and divorced me. She had more balls than I did I guess. I don't think she cheated and I know I did not. We just went different directions. I miss what I had. A family. A W and child to come to. In laws. My doggies. Two incomes. It was all gone in 16 months. Mutual friends and family had takened sides. Hard to believe. I still have nightmares wishing that that is all it was. But a bad dream it was not. It is my life today.
My life today....I remarried a woman 11 years younger than me who is gorgeous. Been married 1 year. I kept the house and able to pay the mortgage. Last Saturday I bought a new car and paid for it in full.Cash. I have 1 full time job and 3 consulting jobs. I have started my own business.
I stopped worrying about what ifs. God has a plan and I will just let him lead.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
