Working on me and letting it play out

[cbtdad]

Nothing really new to report.
Spent a lot of time with the W over the past few days. Went out to dinner with her and another couple Saturday night. We had a great time. I made sure I just listened to her and didn't "control" the conversation. Think I did really well.
Sunday we went to baseball game with our S and a friend of hers. Another great time
Last night she asked if I wanted to start watching the new season of House of Cards. I have Netflix set up in our bedroom. So we watched a couple episodes in the bed. Then I went back to guest room and went to sleep.
IC thinks this is still the right move for me. Give her the space she needs and let her come to me when she is ready. She says that my verbal and emotional abuse wore down W and she became numb. Bottom line is it will take time before she believes that the changes I am making will last.
So for now I continue to actually be very happy with me and the progress I'm making. I'm also very happy with the way W and I are getting along and communicating. But of course in the end I want more. For now though I will continue to plug away and not push