Cnut! Good job on recognizing what you can't control. It is definitely upsetting and I get that, but you can't get mad at W for something she didn't do. But you understood that moved forward Great progress my friend!
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it