Apparently,, you won't get the "friends" in the D. But clearly those are not the kind of friends you want anyway! (You will just have to go out and make better friends--as hard as that might be for you.) I found out during this debacle that my sisters were not really as supportive of ME as I would have liked/hoped. Sure they were worried and concerned and hated H with a passion, but the decisions were mine to make. They just wanted me to kick him out, leave him, etc. Yet a friend whose own H had an affair, called me everyday to check on ME. Or texted me to see how I was. She is a TRUE friend.
PS--I love your war/MLC analogy too. How fitting.
Me 47 H 49 S18 S15 M 21 BD #1 11/09/15 ILYBNILY I believe we are Piecing 1/2/16 Suspect EA/PA? 2/28/16 BD #2 "He tried, but needs passion." 2/28/16 Confirm PA 3/11/16, he's leaving in June H leaves 5/7/16
