I uh....wouldn't bring in a shaman, they're haram.

Remember, don't believe a word they say and only half of what they do. She will say some of the most bizarre/extreme things and the next minute/day will swing in the other direction. Like Sandhi said, she is in withdrawal and likely acting out because of it. Step back and let her flail.

M 10yrs T 13yrs
BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW
BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off
Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce
April '17-Letting go
2018 D busted
DD8, DS6, DS3