Learning the Two Step:Quick, Quick, Slow, Slow

[melweb]

Well! I thought I would have more time to catch up on threads now that I am done work, but that has not been the case: We have made a decision to move back "home."

The decision was not a hard one to make--our house has not sold yet, H has not been all that happy here (Clearly), and more importantly, S15 is not happy. I have mixed feelings.

On the H front, I/we are taking it day by day. What other choice do we have? Most convos concerning A are productive, but then we have one where I feel he's not taking my feeling into account--that I "need to just let it go, its over." I guess this to be expected. Right?

In the "Things That Make You Go Hmmm" department: H has changed his cell phone password. I am not sure when as I do not check it everyday as it was driving me insane and I was finding nothing. It was actually making me feel worse, instead of reassured. In fact, I had decided I was not checking anymore because of that, and also felt that now that he knows I am checking, why would he use cell or text to communicate with her-there are other ways to do it without me finding out.
Unsure how to address this at the moment--I need to process.

So anyhow, we are outta here in 50 days. Lots to do to set up the old house. Just when I was feeling settled!