Oh and just to give the story some spice.

My brother employed a shaman to take a look at our sich. Where i am from hexes and curses by your enemies or scorned friends / families are not unheard of.

Here is to some voodoo woodoo.

Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.