Thank you doodler and betterm. but I am sure long term not talking can't be good can it? Of course if communication never becomes better - might as well stay detached?
Originally Posted By: darknes
Hmmmm...have you read the thread on detachment? That might be a good place to start.
And this too... --- Right now you need to not worry about "what ifs" or "unpredictable outcomes". There is a reason this site exists, and it didn't just pop up overnight on a whim. I know it's hard (We've all been there, and still are), but you need to quit playing through scenarios of the unknown, and focus on the homework. Have you read Sandi's post(s) about WW and LBS? don't just read the first post, the entire thread is littered with useful, detailed information.
