Hi TK, glad that you are managing to have some down time and well done for your honesty about the beers.

Truly though - you've highlighted concerns about your use of alcohol, so a few beers probably aren't a good plan. And have you got things underway about AA support? It's important to get that solidly in place I think.

As for your W - I think it is important to leave her be and let her travel on the path she needs to take. Yes, she may need to see a Dr or get some support - but if any of those suggestions come from you (when she's blaming you for stuff) they will be counter-productive. Much better to live your own life in a constructive and positive way - then I think she may come to see - aha - TK wasn't actually the main problem here.

Your W is at an age where MLC type issues could be present too...

Hope you enjoy your time off and glad to hear you have nice plans smile x

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