Being there to help v going dark:balance

[Surfer]

To follow up on what darkness said, YOU must submit the schedule that conforms to your availability/wants. If she doesn't like it, then you can try to accommodate.

So in terms of setting a Schedule its early days but you are right. Week to Week would be good for now. Then get a routine.

On another point, what about calling to see how the kids did at swimming etc. I am struggling with distancing - I want to see how they have done but partly there is some 'anxiety' and 'need' driving the desire to call. However, I guess if I just say can I speak to the kids and don't engage with WAW does that work or should I leave it for a few days. I am seeing them in the morning in any event.....I am sure you have been there.