Being there to help v going dark:balance

[doodler]

In short am I kidding myself - am I still being too available?

Surfer,

I don't know if you're being too available or not; I'm not very good at the DB stuff.

But, I did want to say that every time I see your user name, I think of the turtle in "Finding Nemo." That's the turtle that says, "Grab shell dude!"

Do you surf? If so, are you like one of those wimpy Florida surfers (I'm a Floridian) or do you do the gnarly stuff on the North Shore?

Of course, you used the word "whilst" and that suggests that maybe you're in colder waters.