PacLove -Write the letter - just don't give it to her. Getting all your thoughts in one place is a smart approach. Maybe in weeks, months or days you can give it to her. Chances are in weeks, months, days you will be feeling different. Write the letter - but hold on to it.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017