Thank you JksD, He actually told me yesterday to give him a head's up if we're going to talk. So when he got irritable last night I understood and asked about scheduling talks which he agreed to. Should I simply cancel them until he initiates? He had initiated the "scheduling talks" yesterday so now I am a bit confused.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3