This is a pretty good start. How about your other goals for yourself? These are all relate to the chance of getting your wife to turn around. What about the goals about things that would attract her to you once she does turn around?
Well I've been pretty much working on myself in various ways since this mess started, I think I've written about it here but not specifically in terms of goals. These are the things I've been doing
-Continue to go to 12 step meetings daily, priority is total sobriety -No lying from now on - even about little things - this is my policy from now on and I believe would be the best thing I could do to improve my character and personal integrity -Continue to focus on my job, in fact - immerse myself in my job so that my career continues to move forward at this time -Monitor my diet (important since I live now with my brother who eats like a pig) -Some form of cardio at least 4-5 times a week, walking or running -Weight lifting full body workout at least 3 times a week -Reach out to friends and family, 12 step sponsors, my therapist regularly for help -Go out with friends as much as possible -Journal writing every day -Mindful meditation every day -Start playing guitar again, once I get my guitar back -Read books
btw- darknes thank you for your feedback through all of this. Your advice is always tough, but objective, and also action oriented. Best to you.
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16
