Hey,

so yesterday, I emailed W to answer all her emails as she sent another email later in the day.

I had the babysitter over to help with the un packing and setting up the kids rooms and kitchen. So glad I did. I got so much done in the three hours she was there. Then she left and I lost all steam.

I am finding this out about myself, when with someone helping me I am happy to work and get things done. When alone I stall and stop and have a hard time to get started. Don't know how to change this.

She and her sister are going to help out today, then I have to leave them and let them work while I go to youngest soccer for an hour.

So far the kitchen is all unpacked and kids clothes are all sorted. Today they will focus on the toys and cleaning/organizing the kitchen.

I can see the house turn into a home now as boxes are getting unpacked.

W replied that her birthday dinner will be nice to have with a smiley face, so I need to make reservations for that.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016