Then once we're past the event, full speed ahead with detaching more. I reiterated tonight that if we ever both decide to try and build something new, that would include requiring her to break off contact with OM. So regardless of what happens with the event, my longer-term is pretty clear. DB/GAL/Detach hard-core and if she decides to give a [censored] and fight for me before it's too late, she knows one of the action steps.
Me, WW - Upper 30s BD - Apr 1 2016 EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away) Confronted wife about EA - May 17 Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11