2T, I totally get it about the wedding… I would be angry too. Hell, I’m still angry about my son was not invited to my H’s niece’s weddings, and H not doing anything about it… But… I agree with what job said about the patience… Not sure I would be capable of following the advice myself… All I can think is “you’ve got to be kidding me…” But… all I think is about making a comment, like… “sure H, I can understand that this is the MOST important even in your life! You cannot miss this under any circumstances!!! You absolutely have to be there no matter what!!! There are going to be the most important memories of your life!!! This family needs you as no one else!!!” And then I would leave it at that…
2T, please don’t take this as an advise. Get that patience shovel re-instated! Listen to what job says. Ultimately, it is up to you regarding the final outcome. If you decide that this is not for you (which I keep thinking about in my own sitch), you can do what you want.
Thinking of you…
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
