And Sara, when he initiates the R talk, remember to stfu and validate and do like what you did. Be pleasant and non- committal. This will definitely catch him off guard and make him feel like he's no longervin sole control of the sitch.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
