HOWEVER, asking her out on a date is DEFINITELY PURSUANT BEHAVIOR! I'll have to agree with the rest, that this is a bad idea.
Just to be clear I was not and do not intend to propose any dates with W at this point.
The only thing I was contemplating was letting her know about the upcoming Retrouvaille weekend in August. We attended a similar style weekend a few years ago and had a positive experience so she's familiar with the concept.
As for now I'll plan on the letter and see where that goes.
Me: 40 W: 45 T: 13, M: 11 1 D: 9
Suspect A 6/15 ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16 EA/PA Discovered 3/16 EA admitted 3/16 W Moved out 4/16 W opens R talk and says A over 1/17