Sandi is the pro around here, but I see nothing wrong with writing a letter, as long as it's CLEAR that you are only stating the things previously mentioned about the letter (accepting responsibility for your part). that's all the letter is, and it's almost an identical format that the "LRT Letter" is, which is recommended by DB coaches. (same story, different number of paragraphs).
HOWEVER, asking her out on a date is DEFINITELY PURSUANT BEHAVIOR! I'll have to agree with the rest, that this is a bad idea. If you think you know your sitch so much more than all us strangers do though, and you're 100% certain it provides a positive result... (tell me, what's a positive result? to get a date? ... errrr). anyways,
I'm not here to argue. My thoughts are: letter of accepting responsibility and NOTHING MORE = good idea... Asking on a date = bad idea. my 2 cents.
