So this upcoming weekend is really bugging me. How is it fair that I need to give up father's day or a weekend without D just because of W's decisions. D wants to spend it with me, I want to spend the time with D, and W is supposedly (per D) ok with hanging out this weekend too but I know family time is discouraged from a DB perspective and I totally see why after my birthday weekend as it only causes more hurt. But again why do I have to give up time with my D for decisions my W is making?

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17