Now question since I failed the 180 detachment, LRT plan what do I do now? Demonstrate affection or stay the course. He is in someway responding if not overwhelmingly positive. Actually I think I can answer my own question. My feelings should not be dependent on his action or inaction. I am not rewarding him with more pursuit. He is my friendly neighbor.
Hello Jamaica,
I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.
You are exactly right! Your feelings should not be dependent on his action or inaction. Put your time, effort and energy into being the best Jamaica and Mom that only a fool would leave.
Just because he and his sister choose to have affairs and blame it on their childhood/role models doesn't mean that this behavior needs to continue to the next generation. You are so smart to recognize that it is important to keep the children away from those kinds of influences.
Knowing what to do and what not to do at this point is crucial. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.
Cristy Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004
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