I actually asked her if I put a straight 50/50 shared care final divorce decree in front of her would she sign it. This just absolutely inflamed her. Since then she has questioned my fitness as a father, told me not to sit with her and S1 at D3's swimming lessons, etc etc. I really don't know what to do. Do I have to keep kissing her ass so that I get to see the kids? She acts like I should still treat her like we are married, when we are in the process of divorce.
-Why did you ask her about the 50/50 split? Of course it inflamed her... did you expect a different reaction?
-If she doesn't want to sit with you at swimming lessons, she doesn't have to. She can move to another spot.
-How are things going with the divorce process? Does she have a lawyer writing up papers? Have you figured out what you will and will not agree to?
Because I saw an ugly side of her this week that I definitely do not love. I've not sure what that means overall though.
She does not have a lawyer writing up papers. She wants me to do that. But she wants me basically to concede to her on everything involving the kids.
Me: 38 y/o W: 38 y/o Together: 10 yrs Married: 7 yrs S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15) WBD: Sep '15 W's EA confirmed Oct'15 W Filed Dec '15 Personal awakening Mar'16
