So. He came over (his day off) to do more packing. I was getting ready to go to work. I told him I had a request of him when it came to people asking him about me or arranging things through him that have to do with me. He said, "yeah, just don't tell them anything". I said, "No. Please suggest that if they need something from me or want to know about me that they should call ME." He agreed to do that.
It should have stopped there, but H expressed how he had also been thinking about what I said while upset the day before. That no one asked me how I was doing. H told me no one asks him either. I said I was sorry about that. But they at least interacting with him often and are seeing him and talking with him. He agreed with that.
I told him the people I had made friends with were teaching me that real friends reach out to one another or check on each other when they know a friend is having a hard time. That I had never gotten that from our social group. Did he? He said no.
I then asked him if he ever felt that he was being used. He adamantly said yes. I asked if he really enjoyed having friends like that. His reply was that he would rather be used than use others.
There was more, but it got scrambled together as I was trying g to leave for work. But I wonder if he felt I was just using him?
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
