BTW, an interesting perspective from a former wayward who I talked with was that he wasn't sure his W would take them back and be capable of forgiveness and was one of his barriers to initially returning.

He encouraged me to let my W know that I would be open to her coming home and check in with her every now and then to show her the door is open, otherwise the risk of them moving completely on is a possibility. Off course this is from a WAH and not a WAW, not sure if this is that different though.

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17