I actually asked her if I put a straight 50/50 shared care final divorce decree in front of her would she sign it. This just absolutely inflamed her. Since then she has questioned my fitness as a father, told me not to sit with her and S1 at D3's swimming lessons, etc etc. I really don't know what to do. Do I have to keep kissing her ass so that I get to see the kids? She acts like I should still treat her like we are married, when we are in the process of divorce.
-Why did you ask her about the 50/50 split? Of course it inflamed her... did you expect a different reaction?
-If she doesn't want to sit with you at swimming lessons, she doesn't have to. She can move to another spot.
-How are things going with the divorce process? Does she have a lawyer writing up papers? Have you figured out what you will and will not agree to?
