The letter if I give it I don't see as pursuing, it simply stated where I've failed and what I'm doing to change.

Retrouvaille I agree could be seen as pursuing, I asked about that a few posts ago but didn't really get any feedback on it. It's only held in my area though 2x/year so I don't want to miss the opportunity if she's open to it. I was simply going to let her know now there's a weekend going and if she'd be interested. I may hold off on this and see how she responds to the letter if at all.

I spoke to my IC and some close friends who know W well about this and their thoughts were that either of them couldn't hurt the situation any more than it is and if she responds favorably could help.

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17