Another update:

As stated before, S told me X wanted to take me back to court to get kids on Sunday nights because as you all know I "screwed him" over in court.

X talked to S again last night to see if S had talked to me about this proposition. (So much for X having the guts to talk to me about this). S told X I was not happy and downright angry about it. X tells S that I have no right to be angry. He also told S he had no choice but to let me have the kids on Sunday nights because otherwise he would have been forced to enter into bankruptcy (insert huge eye roll here).

S told X, "Dad, I don't know why you are so hell bound to keep us for another 2-3 hours when all we are going to do is go to bed. Honestly, dad, I want to be with mom." X went on to tell S then I would take his dad back to court and get more child support and he just couldn't afford that and blah blah blah. S told his dad he didn't care, he was staying with me. X then goes on to tell S that his sister (my D) wanted to stay with him on Sundays. S just tells X then D can stay with you, but I'm going with mom.

I asked D later if she really wanted to stay at her dad's house on Sundays or if she wanted to come back home to me. She said "mom, I don't want to be at dads at all".

Since BD I have been absolutely terrified that I would end up losing my kids. For the first time since that day I feel I have absolutely nothing to worry about. He may try, but his attempts will be futile. I think I have come out on top.

So things may look bleak at the moment, but try to look into the distance. Stay true to yourself and keep smiling. Never let yourself get dragged into the trenches with the MLCer. Four years and counting and I have regretting nothing. Stay strong.

Peace!
WH


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"