Originally Posted By: betterm
Originally Posted By: PacLove

tough call, I still might be tempted to put it back in there.

No. Don't ask for forgiveness at the end. All you are doing is taking responsibility for your part of the problems in the MR, and showing her that you understand her hurt, how you played a part in that hurt,that your working on bettering yourself, and that you'll be a safe person to come to if she wants to talk in the future.


Thanks for the reassurance... now to try to exercise my best penmanship - I'm a terrible writer was originally going to just print it out but will see if I can make it neat and legible.

I plan to follow up the the letter with an invite to Retrouvaille later in the week but am not optimistic she'll be open to it.


Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17