Mrs. NOP:

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If your husband came to you tomorrow with bags packed and told you that he couldn't live this way anymore, you would probably discover that he suddenly was worth your efforts in this arena. Why wait for that moment to occur?





Ok, now you have my attention.

I don't think he would leave, he really doesn't 'complain' much... outloud... to me... verbally! I notice him getting 'short' with everyone, and I guess this is how he shows he is 'frustrated' with things. But no, I wouldn't want to face that before I made a change.

I'm just wondering how you make the decision STICK? How do you keep on 'doing it' in the long run and not fall back into your regular old patterns. I realize I have to make a committment, but staying the course seems to be a big hurdle. I don't think H is going to 'lovingly' remind me!!!

How do you do it (and I don't mean 'it' )? How do you 'stay the course'? Do you slip up occasionally? Does it make Mr. NOP upset or nervous? How do you get back on course, and does Mr. NOP remind you?

Thank you for taking the time to help... my H would thank you too!

Jen