I agree with the others. This is not controlling. This is protecting. Plus she said she had done so already. Did she lie or is there a miscommunication?

I understand your reaction and probably would react similarly if in the same position but is your reaction proportional to the "offence"? I think it is inappropriate and untasteful on his behalf, but I am not sure it merits taking out the baseball bat......again.

Glad ye are having good time together. That is important.God luck with your first MC session


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together