Out of In house S- Start of two homes (10)

[vise82]

Hey so W has emailed me Twice today.

Once about a kids sport thing. That's fine.

Then another about fathers day. she is asking if I want to keep the kids with me on fathers day until its bed time. Normal would be drop off before noon. SO I guess that means she is not doing anything for me with the kids.

I have soccer at that time. Not sure what to say. I think I will think about it.

But kids are too young to do anything for me so that's why I thought she would step in for them. She is basically telling me I can have the kids during the day for fathers day and she will not be around.

her birthday is on wed. and I offered to take her out for dinner because the kids want to and I am helping them with her birthday gift.

This is where no expectations needs to be the rule.

I am kind of thinking of replying that we should just stay with the agreed kid exchange times, I will drop them off to you at 12:00 noon.