To sign or not to sign

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Just a quick update. Things have been pretty stagnant until last week. We found out S15 was 'vaping'. However, instead of dealing with that, all WW wanted to talk about was $$$. I was very frustrated with her, and just elected not to avoid talking to her. For a few days I was even questioning if I was still in love with her. I then found out she elected to talk to him about it without me even knowing. Again, reinforcing my lack of desire to talk to her, and questioning if I loved this person she has become. So, when she called Saturday morning, I just handed the phone to the kids and elected not to talk with her. I actually asked her if I put a straight 50/50 shared care final divorce decree in front of her would she sign it. This just absolutely inflamed her. Since then she has questioned my fitness as a father, told me not to sit with her and S1 at D3's swimming lessons, etc etc. I really don't know what to do. Do I have to keep kissing her ass so that I get to see the kids? She acts like I should still treat her like we are married, when we are in the process of divorce.