Sorry, missed your post earlier. OK, first things first, you're best to start your own thread on the forum. That way you'll get lots of important tools from Cadet and sandi2 to help kick the process off.
No, you don't go 'dark' on your kids. They haven't asked for this, and you need to step up to be the sane parent at this difficult time. No, you don't be mean either, but you have to act confident and strong. You can say no. Hope that helps so far!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
