Hey,

W eamils me saying kids miss me and if I can look after them when she works late tonight. Saying kids would love it if I could.

Would you call that manipulation or what?

I emailed back saying I have to pick up some stuff for my house at that time, cant do it.

She also called last night I am sure about the same thing, She just left a message that kids wanted to call as I missed the call.

I tell you I have never been more detached then this right now. Moving out really helped with that.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016