Seems like a long list, when I look at it. I know from this list, the areas I need to work on and will continue to do so.
So, you are believing her self-justifications she is giving other people?
This is not a "honey do" list. Throw that out of your mind. You are falling into that pit of wanting to do something to please your W. You need to stop be a pleaser! That is one of the main problems nice-guy types have. It become such a habit that they don't see it in themselves.
The only list you should work on is a list your personal goals.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
