And, she has moved out. The move went pretty easy. We got into an argument about a couple things. We had previously talked about certain things staying, for instance, a Kurig coffee machine. I saw her taking it, and put my foot down. I don't even drink coffee right now, and she argued that she uses it everyday. I tried telling her that its not the coffee machine I want. I could care less. Honestly, I don't even want it. It was her backing out on her word about what was staying.
She pulled the "i don't remember saying that". Sorry, doesn't mean it wasn't said. "Aren't I allowed to change my mind?" Sure you are, but you have to vocalize that to me, you can't just change your mind in your own head and expect me to go along with it. She was mad and spouting all kinds of kinda random things.
She had a couple more trips to make from my house to hers, and after that first trip, she called about an hour later and apologized for the way she was acting. I accepted and let her know that "when you goes against what we previously discuss, it worries me that you will have a change of heart and start going after a bunch of other stuff, like the house/more money,etc. I need to protect myself from that." She understood and swears that won't happen. I do believe her. She was stressed about the move, but this is what she wanted. She also agreed to give up her key, she didn't like it, but she doesn't live there anymore and understood after she took some time to think about it.
I spent the weekend with family and getting some new furniture in the house enjoying some nice weather. I got a text from her last night asking for the login info for Netflix/HBO. Its my mom's account that she lets us use. I didn't respond last night, but just resonding this morning that I'll find out and let her know. It's really not anywhere close to a priority for me right now.
At the end of the weekend, I'm just happy that I have both my dogs here with me. She spoke about taking them for a weekend here and there, not sure how I feel about that right now though.
