Hi Huddy. I wasn't suggesting you date. I think GAL is not so much about going out ( even though it's a major part of it ). It more about getting on with your life as you would if W moved to Australia and you wouldn't be seeing her ever again and if you did it would be in passing
I'm not a great example but as far as my WW is concerned I no longer have any interest in an R. My life has moved past that stage and the only reaction she will get is if the kids are upset and even then my reaction is like , really ??
In your posts it's clear ( and 100% understandable ) that you are still very attached to what your W does. If I'm honest I was sure the dating thing was to get a reaction until she took it down and you told us that she had no photo up Now I think she went on looking and probably did not like what she saw or changed her mind. Mind reading on my part but my thoughts.
For me , your doing great but it's that last part that you need to let go of And that's so hard because you love her but it's needed on several fronts
First , so Huddy can find peace and move forward and secondly so W feels the loss of Huddy.
I can't remember the posters name but he and his W did reconcile after a good few years. Once his W left , that was it , not cosy chats , no doing things with the kids together , no Xmas together , nothing. His thought process was she had fired him as her H so he accepted that and moved forward
Last week you got upset they W was on a dating site , I'm not trying to hurt you but doesnt that show that she has no intention of reconciliation right now ?
Sandis tag line is do what works. What your doing right now isn't working so what can you change ?
Just re read this and it's a bit dis jointed but I hope you get what I'm trying to say
